Words, Folding and Piercing


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This is true not only of the words we read but definitely also of the words that we say.

“The world out there? It’s a tough place right now, you know? Sometimes, it feels like people are more interested in being right than being kind. Some want to have the last word, the final say, and the smug comeback. I see it too often: how people choose vitriol over virtue.

And that’s just the public word exchanges.

Some of us know painfully well how words behind closed doors can cut the deepest.

I have both loved and hated words. They have been used to heal me, and to hurt me.

You too?

We are all shaped by the words spoken over us. The names we’ve been called on the playground. The inspiring pep talks our parents gave us. The words the counselor spoke over us. The insults from the boss. The gentle affirmation from the kind lady who always sat in the last pew.

Behold the power of the spoken word:

“The tongue has the power of life and death.” {Proverbs 18:21}.

Words start wars, and they spark peace.

They are shadows, and they are chains. But they are also wings and freshest air.

Words can take you prisoner, or they can set you free.

Our words always fold into the souls of other human beings. That’s no small thing.Jennifer Dukes Lee

A Gift to Yourself


I posted this on my personal Facebook page this evening and I think it bears repeating. Here and everywhere. Over and over and over…

Valuing yourself is not arrogance. Self-care is not selfish. Replenishing yourself is not egocentric. Taking time to work towards YOUR peace and happiness is not narcissistic. You are unique and incalculably valuable in this world and life, and you valuing yourself is an absolute necessity. You are enough. And I will keep on telling you this.

Love,
Mel

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